The Man Who Quit Money: An Interview with Daniel Suelo

“Money only exists if two or more people believe it exists.” – Daniel Suelo

When I first heard the story of Daniel Suelo, I was immediately intrigued. After all, Daniel lives entirely without money and has done so for the past 12 years. In 2000, he put his entire life savings in a phone booth, walked away, and has lived moneyless ever since. Most frequently, he lives in the caves and wilderness of Utah where he eats wild vegetation, scavenges roadkill, pulls food from dumpsters, and is sometimes fed by friends and strangers. Daniel proudly boasts that he does not take food stamps or government handouts.

I found myself very interested in hearing what he has learned from the experience and how it might inspire me in my own journey to live with fewer possessions. So I contacted Daniel to see if I could ask him a few questions about his life and what views on money and possessions have shaped his existence. He graciously agreed. This is how our conversation went:

1) Earlier this year, your story was documented in a book titled The Man Who Quit Money. I opened this interview with a brief introduction. Am I missing anything here Daniel? Anything I should be adding to help us get a better understanding of who you are and the life you have chosen to live?

I don’t care for the statement, “Daniel proudly boasts that he does not take food stamps or government handouts,” because it can be construed that I put myself above those who must take food stamps or government handouts. I don’t judge those who do. I merely mention that I don’t take government assistance for the sake of those who might think I’m living on their tax dollars. I do boast about having few possessions and no money, because it’s ironic fun to boast about nothing special (wild creatures, after all, have few possessions or money and it really feels like no big deal), and to boast about what the rest of our commercial society debases.

I will add that I do make a small exception to taking government handouts: I use the public library to maintain my blog, website, do emails, and read books. This does cause ire in people searching for loopholes in my lifestyle. In my blog comments, a woman once responded to their anger by declaring that she pays taxes and doesn’t use the library, and that she donates all her library time to me. Then they were quiet.

2) Thanks so much for taking the time for this interview. I find it interesting that so many of the articles highlighting your story include something similar to this line: Suelo “came from a good family and has been to college. He was not mentally ill, nor an addict. His decision appears to have been an act of free will by a competent adult.” So, for starters, you are clearly not a crazy man. Correct?

A crazy man does not think himself crazy, so my opinion on the matter is meaningless :-) People will have to judge my sanity for themselves.

But it would be nice if we lived in a world that considered it crazy to cause harm to ourselves, others, and our environment or to praise those who do cause such harm. Then we’d have to say we live in a truly crazy civilization. A sane society would consider it crazy to kill living things and destroy food and water supplies in order to amass something that nobody can eat or drink, like gold, silver, and money. It’s crazy to sacrifice reality to the idol of illusion.

3) The thinking that led to your journey into willful moneylessness evolved by degrees during your travels. Could you share with us some of the foundational beliefs that have evolved in your life that led you to make this decision to give up money entirely?

My first thought of living moneyless came when I was a child. In my Evangelical Christian upbringing, I wondered why, if we were followers of Jesus, we didn’t practice his teachings–namely giving up possessions and doing not for the sake of reward (money and barter), but giving freely and receiving freely.

When I left home for college, I studied other religions and found that all the world’s major religions teach giving up possessions and doing not for the sake of reward. If all the separated witnesses are saying the same thing, it must be true. Ironically, few practice the one thing they all agree upon in word. What would happen if we actually practiced this stuff, I thought.

My dad also took us camping a lot, and I was a nature freak. I couldn’t help but see how perfectly balanced nature was, and it ran on no money. Why, then, couldn’t we?

As an adult, I thought it through more thoroughly. Nature’s economy is a pay-it-forward economy. This means one sows, another reaps, ad infitum. For example, a bear takes a raspberry, and the raspeberry bush demands nothing in return. The Bear takes with zero sense of obligation, zero guilt. The bear then poops somewhere else, not only providing food for soil organisms, but also propagating raspberry seeds. You never see 2 wild creatures consciously bartering. There are no accountants worrying what the bush will get in return. This is exactly why it works, because nobody knows how it works! There is no consciousness of credit and debt in nature. Consciousness of credit and debt is knowledge of good and evil, valuing one thing and devaluing another. Consciousness of credit and debt is our fall from Grace. Grace means gratis, free gift.

My next impetus for living moneyless came from observing the world economy and politics. Do our economy and politics function well? It’s self-evident, isn’t it?

My next impetus for living moneyless was to find authenticity for myself. To do out of one’s heart is to be real. To do for somebody, expecting something from them, is ulterior motivation, which is to not be real, which is to prostitute oneself.

My last impetus for living moneyless was to heal myself. Okay, I guess I’ll talk about my craziness. To heal myself was to first see myself as crazy, and only them could I become free of craziness. I was suffering clinical depression. Mental illness is rooted in having unnecessary, thoughts and to let go of unnecessary thoughts is to free oneself from mental illness. This is basic Buddhist philosophy. It is the philosophy of all the ancient religions. To cling to thoughts is to possess thoughts and this outwardly manifests itself in having unnecessary physical possessions. We accumulate what we don’t need out of fear and anxiety. This is true craziness. Unnecessary thoughts and unnecessary physical possessions (including possessing people) are inextricably linked. To accumulate unnecessary possessions is not to live in abundance, as we’re led to believe, but is to live in scarcity. Why would we have too much stuff if we believed the universe was abundant? Why would we worry if we weren’t crazy? Worry is simply lack of faith, faith that everything we need is in the here and now.

4) Your spirituality is clearly an important part of your journey. In what ways, have your spiritual beliefs strengthened you for this journey and lifestyle?

I mentioned above that this is about faith. Faith is eliminating unnecessary thought, trusting that everything we need comes as we need it, whether it is the right thoughts or the right possessions. Faith is being grounded in the Eternal Present. This is the common truth of the world’s religions.

5) What are some of the most important lessons about money/people/society you have personally learned over the past 12 years? And did any of these lessons surprise you?

Most important is that I’ve learned our true nature lives moneyless, giving freely and receiving freely. Even the most staid CEO is human underneath, and gives and receives freely with friends and family. By cultivating this nature in myself, I can see it in others, and it can be cultivated in others. When our real selves are cultivated, the gift economy is cultivated, our unreal selves (based on ulterior motivation) and all the nonsense drops away.

I have been surprised at the intensely angry reaction thousands of people have had at my living moneyless. It used to bother me, but now I realize that anger doesn’t come from people’s true nature, but from the facade they build up. The facade is threatened by reality. Who wants to hear that the basis of our commercial civilization is an illusion? Money only exists if two or more people believe it exists. Money is not a physical substance, but merely a belief in the head. Money is credit, and credit literally means belief (e.g. credibility). Money is literally a creed, the most agreed-upon creed, or religion, in the world. And what fundamentalists won’t get angry if you question their creed?

6) The reality of today’s society is that most people will never make the full leap into moneylessness like you have. Do you believe that your lifestyle still offers important inspiration for individuals and families? And if so, in what ways?

As I said, we all live moneyless at our core, in our everyday actions with friends, family, and even strangers. People tell me almost every day that they find living this way inspiring and even comforting. Even if people don’t intend on giving up money, they can still find that it isn’t the end of the world if they lose their money. If you are not religious, it is comforting to be reminded that life has flourished in balance for millions of years without money, and why should it fall apart without money now? Nature evolved you from an amoeboid to a human over millions of years, with zero money, so why should nature give up on you now? How is it that, when natural disasters (tornadoes, earthquakes, tsunamis) hit towns and cities, people suddenly forget about money and start helping each other? It’s comforting that we have a true nature beneath the falseness and ulterior motivation of commercial civilization.

And if you are religious, it’s comforting to know there is profound truth at the core of your religion (whether Christian, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, Taoist, Sikh) that actually works if you practice it, that it isn’t all a lie. If we don’t practice the core truth of giving up possessions and ulterior motivation that every religion teaches, then of course our religion becomes a destructive lie, as we see all around us.

7) What are the practical steps individuals can take to free themselves from their pursuit (and bondage) to money – even if they will never live entirely moneyless?

People get overwhelmed unless they realize that all the tools they have are here and now, and steps can be taken right here and now.

Everybody, no matter how entrenched they are in the money system, can freely give and freely receive. Freely giving and freely receiving is our true nature, is true human-ness. And everybody is human. As I said earlier, it’s about being real, cultivating our true nature, and everything else falls into place, and all the falsehood drops away, no matter what station in life people are in. Even if somebody is totally skeptical about what I am doing, I challenge them to make it their goal to be totally real, with themselves and with every human interaction, and I propose they will then know whether or not I’m living a pipe dream.

Somebody once commented that our cities and towns could not function without money. But I say they and the world can’t function right now in the present system.

Take classic American suburbia, for example. People don’t know their neighbors, and everybody has their own cars, computers, TVs, lawn mowers, washing machines, etc, etc, as well as stockpiles of food and land they could grow food on. All we need is right here, but the only thing that’s holding us back is not physical reality, but belief, dogma. What if we actually spoke to our neighbors and agreed to share, like we learned in kindergarten and in church? What if we realized we could share cars, computers, washing machines, have dinners together, etc, which would not only save us expense, but would save expense on the environment, and, as a bonus, put smiles on our lonely faces? Then cities and technology would start serving us, rather than us serving them. But what’s holding us back? Not reality, not scarcity, but only our thinking!

As far as going all the way and living without money, people often ask me to teach them survival skills. Often I feel like I don’t know many skills, that it’s really about determination and getting up the confidence more than actual skill. Sometimes I tell folks to imagine something really silly: what if somebody offered you a million dollars to live without money for a year? I guarantee most people would figure out how to do it, skilled or no. This is about finding a determination, a motivation greater than a million dollars!

8) I’m curious how concerned you are about spreading this message of living free from money. I know you had the book written about you, you maintain your website, and you have agreed to this interview and various others. Is there a message you believe you have inside that is important to get out? And do you look forward to your story continuing to spread?

Yes, I now have a strong urge to spread the message. At first I just wanted to live my own life, whether or not anybody else took notice or not. Then I realized a message was errupting in me that I could no more suppress than an erupting volcano. Our society is not sustainable and we are not only heading rapidly into, but most the world has already reached disaster, due directly to our being trapped by our own beliefs. I want to shout this out to the world. But talk isn’t enough. It must be talk with action, right now. We could debate whether or not Paul Revere was trying to gain attention for himself, or we could simply take notice that the British are invading and we have to get off our butts!

Thanks so much for your time Daniel, I really do appreciate it. Your experience is unique – at least, in our society. As a result, it provides each of us an opportunity to reevaluate your own opinions and views on how we choose to live. And for that, I am very thankful.

To discover more about Daniel’s specific journey or find the answers to the questions swirling in your head, I’ll refer you to the FAQ on his website.

But before you leave, what parts of Daniel’s story resonated most with you? Did you discover any new insight or inspiration during the interview? Let us know in the comment section below. I’m interested to hear how his story is challenging others.

Joshua Becker

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  1. says

    Everyone thinks money is the most important part of our life but it is not completely accurate. Other things like simplicity and love are also have an important role in our life. So we don’t think only about the money has some happiness in your life by giving importance to each and every movement of life.

    • Vivek says

      Obsession with money could be as much of a crime as obession with no-money.

      Money has been devised as a usual and convenient tool to exchange goods and services between human beings.

      Money itself is not a problem, so does anything in the universe. It’s the attachment to it to the extent of obsession and unnecessary amalgamation is the problem.

      Use it, but do not be identified with it, that’s all.
      :)

  2. Karen Wilkinson says

    I have been chasing this fantasy of having enough money for 30 years. I’m tired and come close to spiritual bankruptcy in my efforts. It all feels wrong inside me. Looking for other avenues.

    A very interesting perspective. Thank-you.

  3. says

    All my life, I have fantasized about what the world would be like if scientists shared everything they were learning, If doctors were doctors because they love helping, if everyone did what they love (for free) so everyone would have what they need, if government was only around to help maintain the balance…

    When I encounter unhappy people, I ask them what they love to do so much that they would do it for free, if they didn’t have bills to pay — and tell them that’s what they should be doing for a living.

    What Daniel has done isn’t a new idea and many people share it, but don’t believe they can live it in this world. And they can’t, really, but where Daniel is living is not of this world… and no, he’s not crazy. The planet and the world are not the same thing. The planet is our home, but the world is our experience and what we believe, think and feel about our experience.

    The Bible talks about being IN the world, but not OF it. To the best of my current ability, that’s what I’m doing. I know we will all be living like Daniel pretty soon, and I’m actually looking forward to it, so I can do what I love, share my passions, and help others have what they need while doing what they love, so I can have what I need.

    Daniel is right — if we pay forward by doing what we love, what comes naturally to us, everyone will always have what they need. Daniel is IN the world, but not OF it. Bravo, Daniel!

  4. Angelica Craig says

    One thing that I really hate in this world is when money destroys relationships between people. I can’t stand it when people argue over money.
    While I don’t intend to live money-free, I completely agree with Daniel that free giving and free receiving is our true nature. I believe in the pay-it-forward economy.
    I browsed through his personal blog. He says he’s back in his hometown to take care of his parents. I surmise that it has become more challenging for him to maintain a money-free lifestyle given his current situation. I admire him more after knowing that. He is truly an inspiration.

    Thank you for sharing Joshua.

  5. Anne Turner says

    Perfectly timed. I am in the process of shedding nearly all of my possessions ahead of an interstate move, and I have been plagued by feelings of anxiety about needing to “sell” at least some of it. Part of me feels afraid that I am being taken advantage of, or doing myself a disservice if I give away instead of sell my stuff.

    This article clarified things for me: I can participate in the giving economy. If people give (cash? something else?) in return, that’s great. But if they are not in a position to do so, nothing is due. I need to practice freely giving and increase my faith in the abundance of the universe.

  6. cat says

    inspiring article. thank you for sharing this with us, joshua!

    i wanted to let you know there’s a small spelling mistake in question #3: “For example, a bear takes a raspberry, and the raspeberry bush demands nothing in return.” Raspeberry should be raspberry.

  7. The Mad Pnciler says

    My friend’s mother passed away at age 87 twenty-one days ago. Two thoughts have come from observing this experience: 1. She was someone who worried about money all the time. While she and her husband were far from wealthy they had what they needed to raise their family and live into old age. After her death when everything was paid for with her small savings, $5.24 remained. She had just enough. 2. When her son closed her bank account 20 days after her death, all active traces of her on the face of the earth ended. Memories and love abound but for all intents and purposes in accordance with our systems, she has disappeared in a matter of days.

  8. says

    If he accepts food&clothes from strangers and takes food from dumpsters, he didn’t “quit money”. He just lives the illusion he did it, while others spend it for him by giving-dumping food.
    You cannot quit money, since you cannot provide everything for yourself. If you have a garden, you can provide food for your family – but gardening means work, providing enough food for entire year means a full time job. That means you wont have time to make your own clothes for example. And you still need to buy tools for anything-shelter/gardening/sewing. Unless you go medieval and build a forge to melt metal *rolls eyes.
    There is a balance in everything, not letting money to rule your world, avoid attachment of material things and stupid consumerism.

  9. Cindy Leibbrandt Williams says

    I am a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter day Saints, commonly called the Mormons. Part of our doctrine espouses living “the law of consecration” as taught in the New Testament in Acts as well as in the Book of Mormon, another testament of Jesus Christ. This notion of consecration, or sharing and recieving, is a difficult principle to live without faith and trust in our fellowman and without eliminating pride in our hearts. The communities of early “saints” (in New testament times and modern times) tried and failed to accomplish this level of trust in their fellowmen and stewardship over the earth’s resources. It is heartening to learn of a “movement” that is gaining public awareness and approval and PARTICIPATION in becoming “of one heart and one mind.”

  10. longe michael says

    following his quote “money is credit and credit literally means belief” am of the view that living without is really weird and mysterious but believe this same is the common language that is been in all sphere of life you could ever think but what surprises me the most was when he compared humans with beast in the forest,because even from evolution man was sensible than these beast as they differ from each other in terms of culture,language,background and otherwise and these group of people understand common language which is money.

    A general question goes to all he said he lives without money but he his putting on cloths,writing book,going on online and others how is that possible,even friends and love one gives to him freely,they do that out of abundance,but everybody should go on that philosophy WHO WILL GIVE TO EACH THERE?

  11. longe michael says

    following his quote “money is credit and credit literally means belief” am of the view that living without is really weird and mysterious but believe this is the common language that is been used in all sphere of life you could ever think but what surprises me the most was when he compared humans with beast in the forest,because even from evolution man was sensible than these beast.Even human to human differ from each other in terms of culture,language,background and otherwise and these group of people understand common language which is money.

    A general question goes to all, he said he lives without money but he his putting on cloths,writing book,going on online and others how is that possible,even friends and love one gives to him freely,they do that out of abundance,but if everybody should go on that philosophy of living without money, WHO WILL GIVE TO EACH THERE?

    A biblical reference was when Jesus himself ask his disciple to pay tax through money which was taken from the mouth of a fish just as Christ instructed,and believe me GOD is not poor then why should you think of living a life of such?

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