It’s about time to turn the page on 2022. And thankfully so.
What should we expect for 2023? It’s tough to know for sure. But in some regards, that is more up to us than we think.
I am not in control of the world, however I am in control of myself… and you are in control of yourself. So even though we can’t control everything around us, we can control some things.
At the very least, we can control how we interact with the world around us. And many times, that makes all the difference.
To that end, in an effort to make 2023 a better year for everyone, here are 12 decisions we can all make as the new year begins:
1. Smile more.
I think we all miss seeing smiles in public spaces. Once the masks are entirely off, decide to show more of those pearly whites every chance you get.
2. Complain less.
Recent years have had all of us dealing with life-and-death issues on an almost daily basis. In some ways, all the things we used to complain about seem so small now. So let’s decide to no longer complain about the small stuff.
3. Appreciate more.
I thought 2022 would be the year I got everything I wanted. Now I know 2022 was the year to appreciate everything I have. Decide now to carry that forward into 2023 and appreciate all the good around us in a more intentional way.
4. Connect more.
In 2020, we lost the ability to connect with others in-person—at coffee shops, churches, restaurants, concerts, sporting events, and even some family gatherings. In 2021, some of that returned, but not entirely. And it’s still not entirely back even after 2022.
Let’s never overlook the opportunity to connect with others again.
5. Own less.
When everything is taken away, we see what is most important. When it comes to recognizing what activities contribute to quality of life, accumulating physical stuff pales in comparison to the actual life-giving pursuits we are being forced to go without. Decide now to own less in 2023.
6. Encourage more.
2022 was still a hard year for many! And all of us needed encouragement from time-to-time. So let’s give it freely in 2023—whether people ask for it or not.
7. Waste less.
Seems like we all learned the value of another day and another opportunity—because too many had their last one taken from them in the past couple years. Let’s decide now to not waste any day, any moment, or any amount of energy remaining.
8. Thank more.
Decide now to say “thank you” more often. You will be blessed, and the recipient will be blessed. Win-win.
9. Compete less.
One thing is for sure—we’re all in this world together. As a result, it’s too easy to see the world as competition against one another. Instead, let’s remember we’re on the same team, all trying to be the best versions of ourselves. If you want to compete, compete against who you were yesterday rather than the stranger down the street.
10. Understand more.
Not only were the last 2+ years marked with a global pandemic and economic downturn, in many parts of the world (including my own) it was a year of political strife and division where a difference in opinion was often regarded as a difference in principle. It rarely is. Everyone will benefit—both sides—if we decide now to argue less and understand more.
11. Save more.
With the overnight shutdown/collapse of many businesses and a worldwide economy, 2022 showed the importance of having some financial savings in reserve. If you haven’t made saving a priority, decide to do it now. Here are some helpful steps to get there.
12. Love more.
Love your spouse. Love your kids. Love your friends. Love your co-workers. Love your neighbor. Love. The world needs more of it.
What does 2023 hold? I have no idea.
But with these 12 decisions as my resolutions for 2023, I’m ready for just about anything. Because life is more than the circumstances surrounding me.