“There are two ways to be rich: One is by acquiring much, and the other is by desiring little.” - Jackie French Koller
From the moment we’re born, we’re told to pursue more. Advertisements from every television, radio, newspaper, magazine, billboard, and website scream to us on a daily basis that more is better. As a result, we work hard hours so that we can spend countless dollars purchasing the biggest homes, fanciest cars, trendiest fashions, most popular toys, and coolest technologies.
But we all know it’s not true. We all know, deep-down, that happiness can not be bought at a department store.. that more is not necessarily better. We’ve just been told the lie so many times we begin to believe it… without even noticing it.
But what if, in reality, there is actually more joy in owning less?
That truth would change almost everything about us. It would change the way we spend our hours, our energy, and our money. It would change where we focus our attention and our minds. It would change the very foundation of our lives. And if it were true, it would free us up to pursue the things in life that we most value. In other words, it would be a life-changing and life-giving realization.
Unfortunately, for some, the idea of intentionally living life with fewer possessions is just too counter-intuitive. It’s an approach to life they have never been introduced to or have never been invited to explore. The benefits have never been articulated. As a result, it’s too far a leap… too long a stretch… and jumping in with both feet is just not going to happen.
But maybe there’s an easier way than jumping in with both feet.. maybe the lifestyle can just be sampled for a bit. Oh, one may not experience all the benefits that are afforded to those who jump in with both feet, but they just may taste enough to continue along the journey.
To that end, allow me to offer 7 areas of life where living with less can be sampled. They are designed to be picked one-by-one, risk-free. Conducting each experiment for 3-4 weeks will give a good feel for the practical benefits, but hey, it’s your experiment. You decide the length.
7 Ways to Sample Living With Less
1. Clothes. According to statistics, we wear 20% of our clothes 80% of the time. That means that many of us have closets full of clothes that we no longer like or no longer fit us correctly. They are just taking up space. The simple exercise of going through your closet and removing all unused clothing leaves your closet lighter, your mornings less stressful, and your wardrobe full of things you love. Give your lighter wardrobe 30 days to work its magic… you’ll never miss those unused clothes.
2. Decorations. Many of the decorations in our homes hold no personal value to our lives. They just simply happened to match the color of the carpet or be on sale when we walked into the store. Unfortunately, they are distracting you and your guests from the decorations in your home that share your story and highlight your values. Take a moment to walk through your home with a discerning eye. Leave only the decorations that are the most meaningful and the most beautiful. Your home will begin to share your story in a beautiful way. And your old decorations will likely end up on sale at your next garage sale.
3. Toys. Too often, we fall into the line of thinking that says more is better… and so do our kids. We begin to purchase and collect far too many toys for our children. As a result, our children have no need to learn how to be creative, helpful, careful, or sharing. In that regard, fewer toys may benefit your kids in numerous ways. Although you may want to consult your children before you relocate their unused toys, there’s a pretty good chance that after only a few weeks the old, unused toys will be forgotten (except by whomever used to pick them all up).
4. Cooking Utensils. There never seems to be enough storage space in our kitchens. Yet most of our grandmothers cooked far more often, far more elaborately, and far better than many of us today… in much smaller kitchens. The truth is that when it comes to cooking, simple is almost always better. We need far less cooking utensils than we currently own. As a result, our drawers, cabinets, and countertops can be far better organized and useful if we simply owned less. To give this experiment a shot, check out this article from the New York Times: A No Frills Kitchen Still Cooks. Then, store all your unnecessary utensils in a plastic bin, put them away out of sight, and see if you just enjoy cooking a little bit more in your new, clutter-free environment.
5. Televisions. According to Nielsen, the average person watches 4 hours, 35 minutes of television each day. And the average American home now has more television sets than people. That threshold was crossed within the past two years. There are 2.73 TV sets in the typical home and 2.55 people. In the average American home, a television set is turned on for more than a third of the day — 8 hours, 14 minutes to be exact. We are literally sitting on the couch while life passes us by. Experiment with owning less televisions. As a result, you will watch less. And when you do, you will be more apt to do it together as a family.
6. Counter-tops. Clutter is a form of distraction. It pulls at our attention and redirects our thoughts – even for just an instant. Everything sitting out on your countertops competes for your attention. Unfortunately, we have become so accustomed to these distractions that we don’t even notice them anymore… until they are removed. Experiment, even for just 7 days, with keeping your countertops completely clear. Store things in drawers, cabinets, pantries, or temporary storage boxes. After one week, you’ll likely return some of it for the sake of convenience, but I’d bet my bottom dollar that you won’t return all of it.
7. Furniture. It may require some heavy-lifting, but if you’re up for the challenge, removing excess furniture from your rooms will immediately open up significant space and airflow in your home. The rarely-used pieces of furniture in your home are quickly recognizable and taking up more space than you realize. Oh sure, this experiment requires a place to store your furniture during the trial period, but it’s a quick and easy way to remove some of the largest clutter from your home.
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Special thanks to each of you who have purchased a copy of Simplify: 7 Guiding Principles to Help Anyone Declutter Their Home and Life. It has ranked among the top self-help books on Amazon all week long. As noted earlier this week, we will continue to sell the book for $0.99 over the next several days as we celebrate its one-year release on Kindle/Nook.
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Great list! We’ve already done most of the list– barely any decorations, 1 old TV, only clothes we love and wear frequently, toys are slowly leaving, kitchen recently gone through, furniture pared down, and counter tops reduced. Yet, there’s always more!
Such a great list for those starting out and those who feel like they’ve done it all :)
Thanks for including this article…well written and certainly doable.
I like #4, Cooking Utensils. So true. We seem to have a gadget for everything and anything. Things we end up using once or twice a year and yet still eats up a good chunk of space on our shelves. I’m pretty sure I own two crock pots. And I don’t even use crock pots!
Got a laugh from this as I am down to one crockpot and wish my big one had not broken in our last move. I use mine at least a couple of times a week, sometimes more. They free up time to spend with my family rather than slaving away over the stove for an hour or more. (depends on the meal) But moving every year has been good for keeping the kitchen gadgets down to the bare minimum.
Want to trade a set of casserole dishes for a crockpot?
Thank you for the tips!
I’m in step 1
Thanks for the reminder. Your post made me think of our kitchen – I need to go through the utensil drawer again. Right now we have a clear kitchen bench top except for the dish drying rack. Our dining/kitchen table has only a fruit bowl however I am starting to desire a clean table top there too – where else is the next best place to store bananas – inside the pantry? Not the fridge I guess as noone wants to eat a cold banana:)
P.S. Sorry Joshua I know this is not a cooking blog :)
Actually, the fridge is a great place to put bananas once they start to ripen…it will keep them from over-ripening. They will turn black on the outside, but stay great inside. Plus, i love a cold banana!
Love, love, love this post. Perfect timing. Simple and to the point.
I don’t know how kitchen widgets multiply so fast! I swear I could clean out those drawers weekly and always find something to toss! Currently, I am thinning out my huge book collection, re-homing any books I can get free on my new Kindle reader. The result so far has been that the book piles on the floors have disappeared. I’m working on all those seldom-read coffee table books. Thanks for your always-inspiring help, Josh.
Great list. i have gradually become more of minimalist. For some reason, I have double and triples of many items. I have been gradually getting rid of things because my place and budget are smaller and it has been freeing. Thanks for the tips and congrats on the book.
There are stats to say that an average UK household throws away £600 worth of food a year. One thing I’ve achieved is to live with less waste. This means less food – sound tough? It’s not!… It’s not when estimated 10% a week is thrown away, so just reduce by 10% and try it.
Great list. I will be moving to a smaller space soon and need to downsize my wardrobe and kitchen stuff big time still. I went through and threw away/donated quite a bit during my first round of de-cluttering but now I have even more motive to get rid of things as I hate moving. Plan to get round of another 2 bags of clothes hopefully, lots of extra dishes and utensils, and I am going to be selling my bedroom furniture. Thanks for the reminder and inspiration to keep it simple!
I simply love these ways to sample living with less!
I appreciate this approach. Jumping in or diving in is amazing indeed but taking small deliberate steps can be just as affective over the long term. I jumped right in with both feet for some of the ways on the list but for others, I need to take it slow and sample.
Thank you for the encouragement!
Much love,
Tali
This article is fantastic! Last June my husband and I decided to downsize so I could take a job with a non-profit and so we could get out of our massive student loan debt. We decided to move to a 330 sq.foot studio and this blog has helped me tremendously with living simpler and paring down my crap. I’m still working on one last box but we have unloaded 3/4 of our earthly possessions and we feel freer than ever before! We even opted for a smaller fridge and as a result my husband and I walk everyday to the grocery store and get exercise and get to catch up on our day. We saved so much money that are going to start making double student loan payments so we can get out of debt even faster! Thank you!!!
hi – love this comment. I’m about to move into a 300 square foot studio – from a 650 square foot one! I’m decluttering and simplifying every day.
If you any more tips re: moving into a very small space – and how to make it work best – I’d appreciate it.
Great ideas Joshua! I find that many of these areas is an ongoing journey. I get rid of some things, and then a few months later I realize I have done just fine and find a few more things to get rid of. My closet is almost to the point of only things I love to wear, which makes getting dressed SO much easier!
Love the book too!
Bernice
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Joshua-
I am interested in your thoughts on food itself. Have you and your family pared down, streamlined what you put on your table? I find that I have become overwhelmed by the number of choices at the grocery store and on menus when eating out. I appreciate being able to get exactly what I want, but feel disappointed that I cannot be content with fewer choices. The American “bigger and more” mindset has warped our brains. I bought smaller dinner plates to encourage smaller portions. My current quest is to declutter my food cupboards and meals.
Tucker – may I interject? Food is the one area I have successfully minimized… other areas I am still working on. My main piece of advice is to meal plan. Only buy what you need for 7 days if at all possible, and use the lot up. We don’t live in a world of scarcity, so unless there is a very valid reason to hold food stocks (such as being at threat of being isolated due to extreme weather – or something similar) then you can manage with a ‘lean’ supply in the cupboard, fridge and freezer. I’ve been doing this week in week out for 12 months, and not only have I reduced my grocery budget by 50% at 37 years old I believe I may be in the best shape of my life… p.s – tiny fridges work well to keep you on track!
I’ve recently dramatically downsized in living arrangements, including the kitchen. And while I think it is a great idea to have a weeks worth of working food items, the idea of going without a back up smacks of irresponsibility. Yes, we live in a world of abundance, BUT we are at the whims of companies to provide this. During normal day to day life, the stores have enough food and other items that we need not worry about finding the basics. However, during pending disasters… this is NOT the case.
During the Katrina/Rita hurricane disaster, my medium sized city was under direct threat of being hit by the storm (despite being hundreds of miles inland). Within a DAY the store shelves were totally empty. The gas stations drained and there was not a flashlight or battery to be had in the city. Those of us who had a decent stash of canned goods and emergency items were never worried,
As disasters like this can often not be predicted (earth quakes, wild fires, tornadoes…) the prudent person keeps on hand a 2 week stash of food for the family, batteries, water, toilet paper, medicines, pet food… This can certainly be kept in a storage box someplace else, but please have it. And, once a year, rotate out the batteries and food so that your stash stays fresh. Emergency services are not capable of providing for everyone when the sky falls!
This is certainly within minimalist ideas – you minimize the need to get assistance from others when the sky does fall. As one who has recently gone through a massive disaster… well, be prepared for the worst and hope for the best.
Hi Joshua, I have just discovered your site (via Daily Health Boost) and I am loving what you are doing here! I’m putting you on my blogroll and look forward to promoting you blog in the near future. (I’ll let you know when I do.) My blog promotes ‘making do’, repurposing, living a simple life… I love how you provide concrete ways that people can start living with less right now. Take care! Delena
Before my husband and I moved to Costa Rica, we really pared down our belongings in preparation for a minimalist move. We loved it so much that we wouldn’t wait to get on with the move so that we could get rid of nearly everything! Even if we hadn’t moved to Costa Rica, we still would have gone in the direction of minimalism. Getting rid of stuff was about as addicting as the process of accumulation, but better. :-)
Thank you for posting the article about the kitchen. I know we are definitely fond of gadgets, but after we moved across the country (also to AZ, from NY) we learned to give up most of them. We do utilize our convection oven, rice cooker and crock pot a great deal though, we have found that they not only use less electricity than the ancient oven we have, but they don’t heat up the house either.
I’m going to have to try your countertop thing this week!
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I love the idea of “trialing” simpler living.
I have tried this with a whole lot of puzzles that I’d been keeping around because they still use them occasionally and also because my last child hasn’t got to them yet. It felt so great to clean up the shelves and not have to agonise over which to keep and which to get rid of. As it happens, one of the ones I put away has been asked for and come back out. The rest are waiting for me to look in that box and probably retain and few for my 2 year old, and get rid of the rest.
I am going to talk to my kids about trialling two things – less toys, and less clothes. Where they really struggle with the idea of giving away toys, I think they might be more accepting of putting them in a box for a month and seeing what happens – *and* that way we can get rid of a lot more at once, which will make more of a difference. And I will probably do better with getting rid of clothes this way too! Thanks, great post!
I’m committing myself to get rid of something everyday for 30 days, and this was perfect to read on day3 of my challenge. It’s getting easier to toss things and helpful when I do just a little at a time. Doesn’t seem as stressful or that it will never get done. I’ve had an end table sitting near my entryway for over 2 years now and was going to sell it. I started piling it with other things I was going to sell, and eventually got rid of those things but never the table. It’s sort of in the way, doesn’t really serve a purpose, and after reading this post I’m completely ok with getting rid of it. Good thing tomorrow is bulk trash pick up day.
Oh, yes. Gotta get rid of all the stuff magneted to the refigerator. Are you with me there friends? And goodbye to most of those old snapshots, articles, cards, calendars and kiddie “art.” Why should I be tied to the past? often it’s someone else’s past anyhow. (Family “heirloom” stuff is an especially tricky snare.)
And one more comment: I hate tripping over things, I love space–so what is this junk doing in my life, in my home. This blog has me looking very critically at some of my in-the-way furniture.
The only problem with the cleared countertops is I actually use the juicer, the toaster, the mini-blender, the Hot Shot water dispenser, and the coffee maker on a frequent basis. I do not have space to store those items in cupboards. I would like clear counters, but I prefer the convenience of having the appliances ready-to-use.
thanks for the article. It will help me with getting started. I would love clear counters and no more stuff everywhere!
My mother always had a ‘spare’ this or that. Our home was full of do-dads and stuff and more stuff. I have passed this down to my children without even thinking about it. It’s a BURDEN! Since taking on a new mindset and changing my home to clutter-free, and unused items free, my children have come on board and done the same. Their rooms are cleaner, pared down, and easier to maintain. The only problem is they bring their unwanted items to the living room. It’s a challenge to consistantly clear out the living room of unwanted items, but I rejoice that we are on the right track. Eventually, there won’t be so much to keep. Thanks for encouraging me to reteach my children in this area.
After I auctioned off my clothes, getting dressed was a breeze. I’d wear ‘that top’ with ‘those pants’ and ‘those shoes’ because that is what I had and it went together. And I felt as though I could finally see my clothes, see what I owned. And walk into my walk in closet!
Oh toys…though we have tried to be conservative with how much we bring into our home, we are the victims of generous friends and family. But with two little ones I am about to do to the toybox what I just did to my kitchen counters…see below…and I don’t see my husband protesting as he is the one to pick everything up! I’ve given up.
I’m the one in the family who tends to clutter the countertops and it drives my husband CRAZY… You are right in saying that clutter is extremely distracting. I feel like I can’t see or think properly in a cluttered room. Last Friday, as a birthday present to myself (and him), I cleaned off the kitchen counters and even wiped them down. And it felt amazing. And yes – I haven’t put anything back out. Everything has a place and that is where it goes from now on!
I feel as though a cluttered counter, desk, closet…these are all indicative of a cluttered mind, at least in my case… :)
I wish you could all see how far we have come! We are a family of 8 (6 kids) and while there is still work to be done, I am already so pleased with the benefits! One thing about shedding so much “stuff” that I have noticed is that I have much more courage to say no to frivolous things. It was a needed boundary for all of us. Gratitude and attitudes have improved, we are more focused and accomplish much more now that we are not constantly drowning in clutter. The things that remain for the most part( still some left to go) are things we love and use. We met with our realtor ( downsizing the house too!!) and my husband explained that I am a minimalist… It was the first time anyone had actually called ME that and it was the moment I knew we had turned a corner :-) thanks for the blog and the weekend reads. I share them frequently with friends!
This is my favorite blog post of yours to date. I love every single one of these ideas. You honed right into the meat of what is gained by each simplification. I practice simplicity in all of these areas and it absolutely does create a more intentional, productive and calmer life. :)
He forgot the most important items….go through your cabinets and refrigerator and clean out all of the non plant based foods. Anything that has been processed or contains ingredients that you can’t pronounce get rid of it.
I love to get rid of stuff – problem is my mum is a complete shopaholic and just brings more and more stuff with her each time she visits!
Being a military family who moves every two or three years, we already do all of these things. We only have one TV with cable. The kids have one to play their Xbox. Most of the houses we have lived in have been small, so we frequently donate things that don’t fit into our home. It’s rather refreshing. :)
If any of you want to de-clutter and minimalize your kitchen of ANYTHING cast iron I will pay for shipping and take it off your hands. Any condition.
As primary caretaker of my mother in law, a lifelong clutterer, I experienced the hazards of this mindset. “But I can’t leave my stuff,” she protested, as I attempted to move her into a more comfortable, medically necessary facility. The mantra I now practice is “I CAN leave my stuff,” and hope my legacy consists of more than a pile of useless goods.
Great list! I have done 2: I have cleaned out my clothes so I only have things I actually wear (ok, yes. there is that long dress in the back of the closet). We gave away our TV a few months ago. We follow one show–Castle–and we watch it on the laptop.
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