A Practical Guide to Owning Fewer Clothes

by joshua becker

“Know, first, who you are; and then adorn yourself accordingly.” – Epictetus

Consider for just a moment how your life would look different if you owned fewer clothes:

  • You would have more disposable income.
  • You would have more time to live your life.
  • Mornings would feature less stress.
  • Your closets would be well-organized and uncluttered.
  • Packing for trips/vacations would take less time.
  • Laundry days would be easier (not necessarily less, but definitely easier).

Unfortunately, instead of enjoying the benefits of owning fewer clothes, most of us buy into the lie that more is better. And because we do, we accumulate more and more clothing each season. We are convinced that new clothes will make us more joyful, more fashionable, and more popular. Unfortunately, they just end up getting in the way.

Consider going a different route with your life. Try owning fewer clothes. You may be surprised at how much you enjoy the freedom that it brings.

Whether you are hoping to minimize your wardrobe to the absolute minimum or just trying to pare down some of the excess in your closet, you will find these 10 steps practical and applicable. They are the same steps that we have used in our home:

  1. Admit that you own too much clothing. That’s all you really need to get started.
  2. Wear fewer colors. Most of us already have a few favorite colors that we wear most often anyway – usually because we like the way we look in them. Choosing to intentionally wear fewer colors means less accessories (shoes, belts, jewelry, handbags, etc.). It also makes too much sense not to try.
  3. Embrace the idea of one. When one can be enough, embrace it – one black dress, one swimsuit, one winter coat, one black belt, one pair of black shoes, one pair of sneakers, one handbag… insert your own based on your occupation, lifestyle, or climate.
  4. Donate, sell, recycle, discard. Depending on the size of one’s existing wardrobe, an initial paring down won’t take long. Make a few piles – donate, sell, or recycle. Start with the clothes that you no longer wear. You’ll be surprised how much you can remove.
  5. Donate, sell, discard some more. Removing the clothes you no longer wear is easy. Removing the clothes that you don’t really need can be a tougher choice. Turn around all the hangers in your closet. After the season, remove every article of clothing that wasn’t worn. That should help get you started on a second round of paring down.
  6. Impose an arbitrary moritorium on shopping. For many, clothes shopping is just a habit – and habit always takes over for inattention. To begin breaking the cycle of purchasing and discarding (the average American throws away 68 lbs. of textiles each year), set a self-imposed buying freeze. I recommend 90 days. If given enough time, this simple exercise in self-discipline will change your view of your clothing and the stores that produce, market, and sell them.
  7. Set a monthly spending limit. Pick a low number and stick to it.
  8. Purchase quality over quantity. Only buy clothing that you truly love – even if it costs more. If you stock your closet full of things you love, you will have less desire to add to it.
  9. Avoid the sale racks. Sales can (and should) be used to help you get a better price on something you need. Unfortunately, most sale racks are designed to convince us to purchase something we don’t.
  10. Impress with your character, not your clothes. Lee Mildon once said, “People seldom notice old clothes if you wear a big smile.”

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Weeze October 24, 2011 at 4:34 pm

I was in Peace Corps in eastern Africa for two years, and I was VERY limited in what clothing I could take. I managed quite well on three pairs of pants, one skirt, half a dozen shirts and two pairs of shoes (sandals and hiking boots). This was all I had for two years! That was beyond minimalist!

I really did like the ease of not having to think about what to wear, but by the end I was REALLY ready for some variety. When I got home, I sort of went nuts buying lots of things, and I filled up my closet in a big hurry. Why do people DO that???

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Denise October 3, 2012 at 10:17 am

Weeze, I did this after having my baby. I did so good at NOT buying an access of maternity clothes and managed to get by with about 10 items. But after 9 months of the same clothes over and over, coupled with the fact that those clothes and my belly made me feel HUGE…I went a bit nuts. Ironically, today I am still wearing the black Liz Lange maternity t-shirt I bought the first week I found out I was pregnant. Maybe that’s what Josh means by buying basic, but classic clothing :)

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Krys March 4, 2013 at 9:41 pm

What I found helps for me is making a ‘shopping bin.’ What I did was I lined a small tupperware box with a space bag, stuffed it full of clothes I liked, and vacuumed it all down. I kept a decent variety–a few pants, shorts, an extra swimsuit, some fancy clothes, etc.–and I shoved it up at the top of the closet.

It’s too much of a pain to access frequently.. but when I get bored of my clothes, I go ‘shopping’ in that box. And low-and-behold! Turns out I like everything in it! So I trade items.. a pair of pants for those.. a dress for this outfit. Those older clothes get vacuumed down and shoved back into the top of the closet.

Even if you had two of these bins.. it’s free, and way better than adding to your collection with outside sources and it’s curbed my urge to buy new things tremendously.

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Heather October 24, 2011 at 4:53 pm

I like the idea of taking photos! I would suggest uploading every photo you have to a place like shutterfly for if your pc breaks or like us our house burned down. The first thing people said was oh no all your photos! I said they are ok, you know I am internet addicted and they have been online for years hehehehe
Weeze, I did the backpack Morocco, Europe and eastern europe for 6 months so living out of what you can carry I feel you on not many clothes but my few months is not 2 years wow you rock!
We are getting ready to rent out our 2480 sq ft house and do 5th wheel traveling all 5 of us! Now definately we will have to be minimalists :)

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Keith October 2, 2012 at 4:39 pm

Hi

You like the idea of taking photos or like taking photos. The latter is more minimalist

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Karin December 14, 2011 at 10:24 am

I am running a library for clothes (in Malmö, Sweden), it works just like a regular library for books but at our “store” you can instead borrow clothes and accessories.

I borrow a lot of clothes myself, because of that I don’t need so much in my own wardrobe. I can still weare “new” clothes whenever I want to. Normally, I quickly get tired of what I buy anyway, and to borrow clothes are much more sustainable in every way. And why buy a new party dress that you will be using maybe once or twice? And besides, if you have a garment that you like, but never use, you can turn it in to a library and if you miss it you can always borrow it.

In Sweden there are a few libraries for clothes and we plan to cooperate so you can borrow in one location and return at another. We get the clothes for free from people who have cleared out their closets.

(I’m sorry that our website only comes in swedish – maybe you can use google translate?)

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Tereza January 13, 2012 at 3:18 am

WOW! I’ve dreamed about “libraries for clothes” and didn’t know they really existed! That’s such a brilliant idea! I would love to start one in my hometown but it’s really small town so I don’t know if it would work here.

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glennis January 27, 2012 at 6:33 pm

I would love to run a library/gallery for art. I have mostly original works by artists but not excessive value, plus well framed prints of famous artists, plus many framed landscvape and anature photos. Wopuld love to know if anyone knows of one. i am in australia.
we all love a change but i don;t want to buy more and store some away.Such a waste .

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Ruth Ezra October 2, 2012 at 5:34 pm

Karin,
I learned ‘library of clothes’… What a great idea! I should partner w you here in the U.S of A…

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Andrew C January 18, 2012 at 1:37 am

Lånegarderoben

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Andrew C January 18, 2012 at 1:47 am

very good idea towards sustainability living.
Visited it in my visit to Stockholm recently.
Can do the same with furniture too.
In Hong Kong, we have for ladies handbags.

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Islem January 20, 2012 at 12:09 am

Gear post!
I do NOT like shopping for clothes…. Yes, I’m a girl. I don’t have patience to look through racks and racks, aisle after aisle… Boring! My husband says I shop like a man – I go into the store to get exactly what I need, if they don’t have it, I walk out.-
But when I do find what I need I spend GOOD money on it so that I can wear it for at least 5 years, and not buy it again till then. I am still wearing good clothes I saved up for and bought when I was 17 (I’m 32 now), like my black dress and two black skirts. My dad gave me a Chinese style dress when I was 13 and it’s of good quality that I still wear it today!

I never thought of this as being minimalist… I think I’m headed the right direction!

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Keith October 2, 2012 at 4:40 pm

Hi

Shame I saw “my husband”. There’s only one thing worse than shopping for clothes and that’s waiting for someone shopping for clothes.

K

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di January 21, 2012 at 9:55 am

3 tops x 3 bottoms = 9 outfits
Omit accessories.
Iron clothes on a towel over a kitchen counter.
Rather than use a hanger, iron an outfit and wear it.
Try one pair of dress shoes, sneakers and boots – or go barefoot.
Rather than a hat or umbrella, try a hooded jacket.

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marie January 19, 2013 at 4:45 am

That’s a good idea, but I have always wondered: what about laundry? I can’t wear a shirt more than once because it feels dirty at the end of the day. That and the fact that I line-dry everything means I need more than just the bare minimum. How do others manage with so little clothing?

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Hirsty February 13, 2012 at 12:00 pm

Nobody really needs more than one pair of jeans. Buy good quality, raw denim. That’s the stiff dark stuff. Wash as infrequently as possible (6 months minimum) they last much longer, maintain their indigo and when you do have to wash they will have a nice contrasty fade. Infrequent washing is good for the environment too.

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susana Gardete October 28, 2012 at 1:33 pm

6 months minimum???!!!!

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Varney January 7, 2013 at 7:18 pm

6 months is nothing. I managed to pull off 2 years without a wash, albeit three pairs on a daily rotating schedule. The trick is to steam them in the shower and not get them dirty. Why were they washed? Needed a full machine.. :/

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Keira December 8, 2012 at 8:08 am

Wash every 6 months? That’s disgusting.

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r December 24, 2012 at 5:16 am

You should put them in the freezer for 24 hours every once in a while, that’s how you get rid of any possible smells.

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A January 27, 2013 at 9:17 am

Raw denim is quite different and can be worn longer without washing since it has not been treated like most denims you find in the stores.

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Elizabeth May 17, 2013 at 8:44 am

I know, shouldn’t it be? And yet, if you do it right it’s totally fine. I used to have to wash my jeans every 2-3 wears even if they didn’t look dirty because they would smell. Turns out that when you fold them up and put them on the shelf, the bacteria breed. (It’s the same concept as letting sheets air out before you make the bed. Much less smelly!) When I started hanging them up and airing them out, they could go for a long time and be fine. I did use the freezer trick a few times, and while it didn’t work perfectly, I got at least another week out of that pair.

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Michaela Stephens May 2, 2012 at 10:19 pm

That suggestion “Embrace the idea of one” is probably the best, most practical advice for reigning in materialism.

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kyasuku April 2, 2013 at 11:26 am

Yes, I agree that many people have too many garments, but for many things, I say “embrace the idea of two.” Then, if your sneakers are wet, you can still play football the next day!

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Leanne May 3, 2012 at 4:46 pm

I love the idea that we dont need alot, and the colour thing. I already do that with reds and blues, although im not into the whole matching accessories, im just not cool enough. So I have one bag, and a few different styles of shoes, sandalsx1, joggersx2, bootsx1 and slippers.
Its hard when your a mum of a young one though to keep clothes to a complete minimum because of all the snotty noses, grubby hands getting wiped all over you. Unless you could manage to wash every 2 – 3 days.

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marie January 19, 2013 at 4:53 am

The idea of one can also apply to a closet or wardrobe. I know a lot of people who need more than a regular (dorm size or Ikea size) closet for clothes, but if you decide that one should be all that you need, then you have to work with only that space, and anything that won’t fit in there shouldn’t have to fit in your life.

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Chris May 15, 2013 at 2:21 pm

As a mama to three young boys…I can’t do minimalist or I end up with a closet of rags in about six months…I have tried it. I cook and clean and play soccer and wrestle and clean and cook some more, get tears and snot wiped on me on accident….I wash my clothes a lot. Particularly my shirts. Buying higher quality helps a little but not much…they end up full of holes and /or faded much quicker than before the kids. I have discovered I need a closet of ‘nice’ clothes and a dresser of ‘at home’ clothes that are cute colors, fit well, etc…but aren’t in the best shape any longer. Not remotely minimalist but to everything there is a season. At least it keeps me from replacing my entire closet every year!

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laura m. August 24, 2012 at 3:18 pm

I go thru the clothes at the end of each season. If I know the item won’t be worn or hasn’t been worn in long time, it goes to donation. This city has several group homes, low income housing, and other thrift shop ministries. This is motivating enough. I stick to denim capri pants most the time as a retiree, with blue and green tops, some browns, my main colors. In winter I wear jogging suits or sweat pants in navy and gray tones. Have several pairs of jogging shoes and bathing suits.

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Maria September 24, 2012 at 10:40 pm

My family and I have been living with the following items for the past 11 months:
- Two short-sleeved shirts (one is for washing days, the other is an Icebreaker and doesn’t retain smell)
- One pair of pants
- Girls also have a wrap-around skirt
- 3 pairs of underwear
- Girls have 2 bras
- 3 pairs of socks
- 1 jacket
- 1 windbreaker
- 1 long-sleeved shirt
- Pajamas consisting of pants, camisole, and long-sleeved shirt
- 1 pair of sandals
- 1 pair of sneakers

It is totally doable and actually quite comfortable. And I like it much better than having 6 different shirts in my closet.

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Meguey October 2, 2012 at 4:27 pm

I like lots of the ideas here, but having only one pair of jeans would mean washing them nearly every day with the yard work / car work / etc etc I do. Some dirt and grime just can’t be brushed off at the end of the day.

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joshua becker October 2, 2012 at 4:47 pm

Thanks for the comment Meguey. These are just suggestions. I’m not assuming every point needs to be adopted by every person. And I tried to leave some personal application room in the “embrace the idea of one” suggestion. Certainly our specific needs change based on a number of factors.

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lauren October 3, 2012 at 9:11 am

Meguey,
My husband keeps an old yucky pair of coveralls hanging in the garage for this purpose. He rolls around under the truck or gets covered in dirt in the yard and just hangs them up out there, leaving his underclothes clean.
Of course, for working on the truck, its nice to have some clothes you won’t mind if oil soaks through onto.
So, he has 1 pair of nice jeans for going out, 1 pair of ratty old ones for under the coveralls, and then the coveralls that get hosed off once in a while when they get stiff from mud and greases.

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Stacy October 2, 2012 at 4:35 pm

Our family is not extremely minimalist by any definition, but each of our three children have one small dresser for all their clothes (except coats, etc.). If they can’t fit their clothes comfortably and neatly in their small dresser, we pare down. Our oldest two, 10 and 12 years of age, already tell me how frustrated they get when their dressers are too full and hard to manage, and are more than willing to spend the ten minutes (or less) of time choosing what to get rid of. Hopefully it will make a lasting impression into adulthood!

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DDS October 2, 2012 at 5:01 pm

I had too much clothing and haved pared down several times — still plenty, but now a quantity which is quite manageable and the various items remaining do get worn. In the process, I’ve found myself letting go of the idea of one while moving more toward fewer colors.

I love the quote about knowing who you are and adorning accordingly. Simplicity and comfort are what matter most to me in clothing. I have several copies of a few core pieces in a few core colors, which makes laundry easy to schedule and easy to do, and makes the what-to-wear decisions so much easier to make during those mentally muddled morning hours.

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Paula Grieco October 2, 2012 at 5:13 pm

I love the quote that you started the post with – “Know, first, who you are; and then adorn yourself accordingly.” – Epictetus Style at its best can be a form of self-expression within limits that put material possessions in its proper place. @Stacy, would be great to see our kids’ generation think “less” was the new hip.

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Kelly B October 3, 2012 at 5:24 am

I do not like to shop for clothes or shoes. I have one pair of sneakers, one pair of black shoes and one pair of brown shoes. I just recently lost over 50 pounds and I have been cleaning out my closet. It is a great feeling. Now I can wear some of the other clothes that I already had in my closet. I have started a couple of bins for clothes that I can’t or won’t wear so I can take them to the consignment shop. I might as well make some money on them so I can get some clothes that will actually fit.

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Lynn October 19, 2012 at 2:37 pm

I do try to follow a more minimal lifestyle…But if a specific trend comes along that I really like…I follow this rule-buy only 1 or 2 pieces that fit into this trend, dont buy the expensive versions because when the trend fades (like they always do)you can get re-sell, give away, or donate without feeling like you have lost out on money

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swalia October 27, 2012 at 7:21 am

you are so right….amazed and inspired!

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Jay December 4, 2012 at 6:45 am

Could not agree more. Our mantra is to buy clothing made for travel as it is just as good for everyday use. If and when you take a trip, you do not have to go out and buy anything new. Less indeed is more.

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Joy Watson January 4, 2013 at 9:17 am

Okay. I’m trying to get started with this whole idea. I want to live with less stuff. I’m admitting it now: I own too much clothing (and other ‘stuff’). So do the rest of my family of 6. I am pretty sure I have 33 pairs of shoes and 40 sweaters in my closet at this very moment. Among the other hangers filled with shirts, pants, skirts and dresses. And a dresser filled with t-shirts, sweatshirts and jeans. I could go on…

I’m not a shopper, but we get hand-me-downs from friends. Often. I haven’t bought a new item of clothing for myself in years–truly. So, I think there’s potential here!

Today I’m going to go home from work and start on my side of the closet. Surely I can find things to part with, right? I dislike most of the items I own…they’re just there because they’re not leaving on their own.

I’ve been reading your posts for some time…and I’ve decided to set one of my goals for this year (and forward) to be: “Own less stuff so that we can live more.” It’s going to take some ‘doing’ to get my hubby on-board. He loves stuff. But I think it can be done. Starting with me…

Starting now.

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marie January 19, 2013 at 5:01 am

That’s a great new year’s resolution, and I 100% with you on that one! I embarked on the journey towards minimalism about six months ago, and it has changed the way that I behave when shopping for instance. I only go for quality, and I always wonder with what other clothes I would wear something before I decide to buy it. If it goes with only one or two things, then I just let it go.

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Nicole January 27, 2013 at 8:22 am

“know who you are and adorn accordingly” – i love this, I think it was a previous blog post here about ‘multiplicity’ which really hit home – i.e. working professional, stay at home mum, gardener, lover, traveller, foodie – how to i meld the things I love into one beautiful bundle, and have a wardrobe to suit the one me……. working on it

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Michele Couture January 27, 2013 at 10:44 am

I really enjoy this blog and there are so many ideas to take away from the writing and the responses. What works for me, right now, is to get away from having someone else’s “image” and developing a practical and useful wardrobe. Because I work in an office, I can’t donate the dress clothes and really use what I would wear 7 days a week, but I have bought pieces that are multi purpose and donated clothes that are out of a certain color group – because I won’t wear them. I bought jeans from Goodwill for working in the garden for $2.50 and while there, donated the things I don’t wear. I think the most important thing is to find what works for you, and it is different for everyone. It’s about the journey, and I enjoy this discovering who I am and what I really like. I see the end wardrobe/home/garden/personal possessions – being different from today, and work toward those goals. It’s fun! =)

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Sallyann January 27, 2013 at 4:50 pm

I’m buying no new clothes in 2013 and paring down at the same time! So far, so good :)

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Kathryn March 28, 2013 at 9:02 pm

I would like to leave an observation – rather a thought about the fact that so many websites encourage people to weed thru things that they already own and donate and or toss what they no longer find appealing in order to “simplify” . What if we find a way to keep them for future use? Let me explain: I own a lot of denim jeans. Actually a ton of denim jeans. I love to shop and for several years have collected them from the clearance racks for a fraction of the original price. I will definitely wear them over the course of my lifetime. I don’t need to pare down my wardrobe in order to declutter/simplify. On a daily basis I wear one single pair of jeans, one of two tee shirts, one of two sweatshirts and have a single set of pajamas and one pair of shoes. I find it rather contradictory that people are encouraged to dispose of things that can be repurposed and recycled. Seems like you will need another set of ” new” clothing down the road. Just saying. I find your blog delightful.

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cdave2 April 9, 2013 at 12:17 pm

Someone upthread wrote, “I have several copies of a few core pieces in a few core colors, which makes laundry easy to schedule and easy to do, and makes the what-to-wear decisions so much easier to make during those mentally muddled morning hours.”

This is true for me. In my case, buying multiples works well. I live in brown turtlenecks and tweed trousers – I aim to have Katharine Hepburn’s wardrobe, ha! The trick is in finding the RIGHT brown turtleneck – the almost-right ones have to go as soon as I can afford to upgrade.

Buying vintage usually resolves the craving for something different, without spending a fortune. I also have to ask myself if I would buy it were it new.

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Vlad April 24, 2013 at 6:31 am

Hi Joshua,

Great post!
I am writing a economics textbook for year 9′s and 10′s in Australia. The book emphasizes on things like environmentalism, sustainability, financial literacy, and the dangers of consumerism. I would love to include this article in the chapter of ‘needs vs. wants’. I would reference the article accordingly and can add any other information/links/photo you wish. Unfortunately this is a labor of love and I doubt I will generate much income so I cannot afford to pay you. Please let me know if you would be ok with this.
In any case, keep up the good work.

Regards
Vlad

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アバクロ シャツ メンズ May 14, 2013 at 11:39 am

Thanks for sharing your thoughts about own less. Regards

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nineateseven May 15, 2013 at 3:01 pm

One of my favorite tricks is embracing truly neutral accessories. My wedding rings are silver, so what little jewelry I have is silver. It all matches! I also go for silver or grey-toned shoes when I can. Still on the hunt for a good quality silver or grey purse that meets my standards within my (tiny) price range. With outfits, I try to stick to the “one thing” idea. One formal dress outfit for warm weather, one formal dress outfit for cold weather. Both are black and white. Same for “casual dress” – one outfit for warm weather and one for cold. Those outfits have a pop of color, but within my wardrobe “palate”. It makes life so much easier. Wedding? This outfit. Christmas Party? That outfit. With either outfit: whatever jewelry I feel like wearing that day. No agonizing for hours over what to wear. Now, if only my unruly hair would get with the program!

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Rufus the Red May 19, 2013 at 9:13 am

Hello, Been reading all the comments and know I need to downsize my wardrobe. There is too much of everything, in too many colours. Shoes galore (mostly black) which goes with most outfits. Have a spending compulsion – I do so well then get the urge to buy, buy, buy. The Salvation Army do very well out of me as they frequently receive quite a number of bin bags full of clothing and shoes. Being a lover of dresses and skirts, this tends to bulk up my wardrobe; though I own 2 pairs of jodphurs which I wear for heavy gardening and hiking. I find these look nicer on than jeans and are more comfortable to wear. Appreciate all the tips from everyone.

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