Perhaps the most underrated sound in the world today is silence.
In fact, quietness seems to be growing increasingly rare.
Rather than sit in silence, we turn on a streaming service, scroll social media, play a video game, or listen to music through a wireless speaker.
And while there may be some benefit to each of the items on that list, the importance of stillness and silence is often overlooked.
But research tells a different story.
Studies tell us that silence “restores the nervous system, helps sustain energy, and conditions our minds to be more adaptive and responsive.”
More than that, it provides opportunity to connect with our soul, evaluate direction and motives, and paves the way for a more intentional life.
But how can we find it in a world that is growing increasingly busy?
Let me offer 19 ideas.
19 Ways to Make Time for Quiet in Your Day
1. Wake up 15 minutes earlier than usual.
2. Turn off the radio when driving.
3. Take a silent walk during your lunch break.
4. Turn off the noise and practice mindful eating without distractions.
5. Replace some TV or streaming time with silent reflection.
6. Incorporate quiet time into your (and your child’s) bedtime routine.
7. Use your time in the shower for focused reflection.
8. Turn off the music while walking, running, or exercising.
9. Use household chores as opportunities for mindfulness and silence.
10. Spend time out in nature.
11. Intentionally sit quiet every time you close your computer.
12. Schedule a 15-minute dedicated period of silence in your calendar.
13. Dedicate a quiet space at home for silence.
14. Attend a religious/spiritual service that provides opportunity for meditation.
15. Take advantage of unexpected downtime.
16. Cancel one recurring commitment and replace it with solitude.
17. Turn off the podcast.
18. Drink your morning cup of coffee in silence.
19. Communicate with others about the importance of silence in your life and ask for their support.
I realize not every item on this list applies to your unique life. And there are certainly seasons of life when finding quiet time is easier than others.
But often, those seasons of life when silence and quiet reflection is the hardest to find is when it is most needed. Hopefully this list will spark some new ideas for all of us.
Suzan Phillips says
Genius Mary Patton!
Thank you for showing us the proper attitude in which to approach this life.
Kelsey says
By leaving my phone at home when walking my dog I am able to spend time with my thoughts instead of concentrating on the distractions such as music or a podcast. Now I look forward to the moments to reflect.
Sam M says
I always like to wake up at least 30 minutes early to have that peaceful time for myself! It is so important to find yourself some quiet time in such a loud world.
Julie A Servis says
I often drive in silence. I also like to be appreciative and acknowledge to myself when there is peace and quiet, whether in my car, my home, on a walk, at my office, etc. I’m very mindful of it. In a household of noise and trying to make my way in a noisy world, I absolutely CHERISH silence.
Li says
I LOVE silence!
It makes me feel so good!
Alexandra says
l go for lunchtime walks to clear my mind, and I never listen to anything but birdsong and my own thoughts. It makes a big difference – we all need some time to not be distracted by anything.
Ruchika says
Perhaps the silence makes us listen to our inner voice, which most of us are scared of and hence we prefer to embrace the noise. Wonderful post, I have unconsciously done some of the above wanting to turn of the noise, will now move to doing these consciously.
Esther says
I live in the country & can hear the birds chirping outside my window &
I already do 15 of these for the last 20 years & don’t need any more silence in my life.
Thomas says
Regarding number 7: What is “focused reflection”?
joshua becker says
Taking intentional time to think about my life choices and the direction where I’m headed. That’s how I’d define “focused reflection.”
Moira says
Oh, what an important post! I stopped listening to the radio in my car over 20 years ago to get some quiet, and there are restaurants and other places that my husband and I quit visiting because of the increasingly cacophonous din almost everywhere. Quiet time really is important to our health and our sanity. Thank you for stating it directly.