“I cannot believe that the purpose of life is to be happy. I think the purpose of life is to be useful, to be responsible, to be compassionate. It is, above all to matter, to count, to stand for something, to have made some difference that you lived at all.” —Leo Rosten
Financial success is a powerful motivator. And it controls the lives of many. It chooses occupations. It dictates how time, energy, and resources are spent. It influences relationships, schedules, and families. To some, it even becomes an all-consuming passion that leaves broken people and morality in its wake.
Unfortunately, it is not the greatest call we have on our lives. In fact, compared to significance, it fades quickly.
Consider the limitations of success:
- Success ebbs and flows with the economy. As recent years have proven, financial success is always at the mercy of a national economy and increasingly, a world economy. When the economy takes a downturn (as it always does), so does net worth.
- Success ends on the day you die. On the day you die, all wealth and possessions will be immediately transferred to someone else. And even if you get to pick where they go, the reality is that person is always someone other than you.
- Success is never enough. Financial success will never satisfy the inmost desires of our soul. No matter the amount of financial success earned, it always leaves us wanting more.
On the other hand, compare the advantages of significance:
- Significance always lasts. Significance will always outlast you. Even when you are no longer present, your significance will still be yours. And nothing can ever take that away from you.
- Significance carries on. Significance keeps on giving. When you positively change the life of another human being… and that person changes the life of another… who impacts the life of another… who influences another…
- Significance satisfies our soul. While the thirst for success is never quenched, significance satisfies our deepest heart and soul. It allows us to lay our head on our pillow each night confident that we lived a valuable and fulfilling day.
Unfortunately, many people spend most of their lives chasing financial success. And while some achieve it more than others, almost all find it unfulfilling in the end. When they begin to shift their life focus to significance instead of success, they wonder why they wasted most of their life chasing something different.
Don’t waste any of your life. Seek significance today.
Here are just a few practical steps to get you started:
1. Realize life won’t last forever.
Everyone knows that life will come to an end – but no one likes to think about it. That’s unfortunate. As soon as you start thinking about the end of your life, you begin to live differently in the present. You are never too young to start thinking about your legacy. How do you want people to remember you? And what do you really want to accomplish before you die? Make a list. Post it somewhere… because rarely will “drive a really nice car” ever appear.
2. Live a life worth copying.
Live with character, integrity, and morality. Your life should look the same in private as it does in public. And while no one is perfect, just begin striving for a life of integrity. It will be noticed.
3. Focus on people. Not dollars.
Begin to transfer your life’s focus from your banking account to the people around you. Rather than worrying about the next get-rich-quick scheme, spend that energy focusing on your child, your neighbor, or the disadvantaged in your community.
4. Start with one solitary person.
Find one person who needs you today. Start there. Significance may be as inexpensive as one cup of coffee or as simple as one heartfelt question. If you are unsure where to start, try this, “No, how are you really doing?”
5. Find a career outside your job.
Sometimes, our day job leads to significance. But if yours does not, find a “career of significance” outside of your job by volunteering in a local organization. Most likely, your gifts, talents, or expertise are desperately needed. Use your job to pay the bills, but use your “new career” to pay your soul.
6. Realize significance is not dependent upon success.
Too many people fall into the trap of thinking, “Once I make it rich, I’ll become significant.” This is rarely the case. Choose significance today. Begin striving for it now. If, then, financial success comes your way in the future, your mind will be in a better place to truly use your new success for broader significance.
7. Reduce your expenses.
Learn to live with less. Living with less frees up your life to invest into others. And living with reduced expenses allows you the freedom to not spend so much time at the office and more resources on others.
8. Read biographies of people who sought significance rather than success.
If you prefer recent history, read about Mother Teresa or Nelson Mandela. If you prefer older stories, give Mahatma Gandhi or Harriet Tubman a shot. Either way, their lives will inspire you to make more of yours.
Rarely do people look back on their lives and savor their professional achievements. Instead, they celebrate the impact they have had in the lives of others. Give yourself much to look back and celebrate.
Stop chasing success. Start seeking significance.
K Matthew Victor says
What a load of tripe!! Just be oneself forget the posturing to be seen to be anything by anyone. That is it. Any ¨difference¨ one makes is ultimately because of inner truth which others will either see, accept or not.
Christophe says
Very inspiring article.
Ellen Scott Grable says
#3 Focus on people not dollars.
That is a powerful statement that can literally change the course of life for yourself and everyone around you. I am inundated by people who want to take your business or finances to the next level.
How about taking our spirits to the next level by buying the homeless guy a cup of coffee, checking in on the elderly neighbor and becoming an active part in the things going right in our communities. Growing organic food to share with others is a powerful act.
We should earn to live not live to earn.
Ken says
Great article, opened my eyes a little wider, must say I agree and really live this way now, thanks so much, focus on people, leave a legacy
Ken says
I’m curious though… are the two necessarily divergent?
Donna Davis says
Our son is dead. Nothing like losing your child to make you realize what is really significant . Our lives are completely changed. We are trying to make many changes to honor Joshua . Your article is a great reminder of things you have learned in life but somehow get lost or ignored.
Jim says
As the year progresses, I’m learning a little more about what is truly important. Faith, family, and finding out who I am. This morning I recieved some terrible news about a co-worker. Their success stopped today. I will continue to try to invest in what is really good.
Thank you for reminding us of where our focus should be.
Bill Grim says
Please add me to your email list….Bill
Brenda L. Smith-Lunam says
I have rarely read an article which so completely mirrors my own thoughts. Thank for submitting this and may it impact on the lives of those who read it.
Jackie Scoggin says
Wonderful post! I’m doing a self-inventory today and categorizing all the areas in my life where I can be significant.
Jim says
I woke this morning concerned about my future, in business and the economy it seems I’ve always been this way. I want to change the way I think. I want to change my focus of success.