christa shared her personal story of becoming minimalist on our “share your story” page.  i found her story to be both challenging and encouraging as we continue to become minimalist ourselves.   i wanted to give you an opportunity to read it as well.  and so with christa’s permission, here it is:

30 years was the turning point in my life. I was an accountant turned stay at home mom with four small children, the two youngest being a surprising set of twins.  My house was overrun with clutter and kids stuff on top of kids stuff. I was worn out from trying to keep up appearances, and I belonged to a religion that actually complicated my life more than words can tell.
 
I was seeking relief. I was needing a drastic 180 degree change. I started out reading the Zenhabits blog. Leo Balbuta talked about how Elaine St James’ books changed his life. I ordered all the Simplify Your Life books and soaked them in like a sponge to water.
 
I immediately started going through the house shedding off layers of clutter. I simplified my wardrobe down to basics and minimized my purse down to what can only be called a mini purse. I simplified the kids’ wardrobe getting rid of all the “fru fru” clothes that they only wore for pictures.  I organized, I simplified but still it was not enough. Next, I read Inner Simplicity by the same Author. I eventually realized that not only the outside needed to be minimalized, but the inside needed some simplifying too or I would never have what it took to raise these 4 children.
 
The next step was simplifying my religion. I realized I had been raised in a works based religion that was way more complicated then my Christianity was supposed to be. The Jesus I read about in the Bible did not care how people dressed (as long as in moderation), so why should a religion insist on a standard of dress, or an earn-your-own-way to heaven policy.  I found another church that let go of a lot of pretenses and allowed people to come as they are. I found a simple church with a preacher who had the same minimalistic, anti-consumeristic values, and taught Grace.
 
Now, having taken van loads off to the Goodwill, and having detoxed my head, making peace with God and religion, life is good! My parents still don’t know what to think about me, but my husband loves the person I have become. Now we have moved on to the physical, and hitting the gym 4 times a week. We feel good, we have room in our lives for taking care of ourselves. We aren’t weighed down with the cares of life, and the kids get better parents because of it!

thanks for sharing your story, christa.  may it encourage others as it has encouraged me to continue living a simple life.

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madoff sentenced to 150 years in prison.

in may 2008, i chose to become a minimalist.  since then, i have begun to  ask myself questions like:

  • what things in my home should i get rid of?
  • how can i declutter this room?
  • which articles of clothing in my closet should i give away?
  • do i really need to purchase this item?
  • how do i live contrary to the current consumer culture?
  • how can i teach my children to not waste their money?

i know a young man in reynosa, mexico who is a minimalist not by choice.  he is a minimalist because he has to be.  contrary to my questions above, he asks himself questions like:

  • how will i feed my family today?
  • will my one-room home be large enough as my children grow?
  • where will the money come from to clothe to my family tomorrow?
  • how will i make an honest living in this capitalist, consumer-driven economy?
  • how will my children be educated to read and write?

alex hopkins is a 17-year old young man who has given his spring and summer to help men and women in reynosa mexico who are minimalist - not because they choose to be, but because they are required to be. 

he has singlehandedly organized a fundraising bike ride named “Change Gears… Change Lives!“  the purpose of the ride is to raise money and awareness for the impoverished community of reynosa, mexico.  his goal is to raise $10,000 to build a feeding kitchen for the purpose of healthy meals, education, and emergency shelter.

i encourage you to find out more and make your tax-deductible donation at “Change Gears… Change Lives!” 

change-gears

 

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i just went to a birthday party for a one-year old boy.  here is one of the gift tables…

first-birthday

the best gift he received: a contribution to his college savings account from his grandfather.  now there’s a gift that will outlast the batteries in the laughing elmo doll.

my in-laws are coming into town tomorrow from the midwest.  it is 10pm, and due to some immediate family matters, we had not begun getting the house ready for their arrival.  my wife was lamenting the chore ahead of us.  i turned to her and said…

“what do we have to clean?  we’ve gotten rid of everything.”

and i truly meant it.  it was a bit of hyperbole to be sure, but it is true that our home has become so clear of clutter that cleaning the whole house is not nearly the chore it used to be.

i guess that’s why i have time to sit here blogging right now, while she is finishing up.  uh-oh, here she comes.  i better g…

handpicked related post: benefit #4: easier to clean

E-mail

i hate admitting weakness.  i avoid mentioning it at all costs.  but today, i will break from tradition.

i have used e-mail at work consistently for ten years.  and i have “purged” my email inbox only twice in my life.  the first time was when i switched companies 4 years ago.  at that time, i had little use for my old emails.  i saved them all to a cd and never looked back… never opening them again… any of them… i started my new job on my new computer with no email messages.

4 years later (today), i turned on my computer to 1,204 email messages in my inbox - no folders, no systems to retrieve data, just 1,200+ messages.  luckily, “purge inbox” had been entered on my to-do list almost 10 months ago and this morning i had set aside time to do it.

first, i poured myself a cup of coffee.  second, i closed my door.  third, i researched recommended folder structures for email by searching on-line and calling friends.  fourth, i got to work going through each message individually and filing them into a folder or deleting them.  fifth, 3+ hours later, i emerged from my office with every message in its proper home in its new folder.  inbox messages: zero.

i incorporated two valuable pieces of advice that i collected during my research.  1) if you can retrieve the information elsewhere, don’t keep the email.  this works for me.  i am not in a job where large amounts of needed data are stored in emails.  most of my necessary data can be found in files and folders on my hard drive.  and 2) keep your email filing system similar to your document system.  in other words, my document folders are sorted by category and event, not people names.  therefore, it made little sense for me to establish an e-mail folder structure based on people.  it serves me better by using events.

i am not surprised that my uncluttered inbox breathes into me such fresh air now when i check e-mails.  just like an uncluttered desk, an uncluttered desktop (or outlook) is so freeing and energizing.

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funny?  or too true to life?

i’ll file it under humor anyway.

some systems work for some people and some don’t.  i get it.  i live in that world.  but too many people blame their clutter issues on personality.  it usually comes out sounding something like this: “it’s a mess, but i know where everything is,” ”i’m naturally disorganized,” ”the mess works for me,” or “if somebody were to clean up this room, i wouldn’t be able to find anything.”

while there may be an element of truth in those statements, some people use their personality traits as an excuse to keep them from living clutter-free.  or even worse, they think disorganization is best for them because they have never tasted order. 

for most of my life, i worked behind a desk with piles of papers stacked on top of it.  my idea of a filing system was just to start a new pile.  one year ago, when we chose to become minimalist, i reworked my office removing all piles of paper from my desktop finding a home for everything.  my workday is so much more productive now.  my desk is freeing and energizing.  i choose what needs to be accomplished each day… not just the paper on top of the stack next to me.  i thought disorganization was the natural order of my life, but i was wrong.  i just didn’t know it until i experienced the other side.

if you see no reason to remove the clutter from your desk, home, or life because that’s “just the way you are,” i challenge you to consider if you have truly tasted the other side.  if not, start small.  minimalize and organize your vehicle… see if you feel better when you drive it.  minimalize and organize your bathroom cabinet… see if you enjoy the freedom that comes from organization.  you just may realize that you’ve been missing out all along…

for further reading, may i recommend “everyone can learn to be organized.

see our full list of “reasons for cluter.

 armoire1

i would like to take this opportunity to introduce you to my old armoire.  for ten years it stood next to our bedroom dresser and housed my pants, shorts, sweaters, and gym clothing.  but because of the extra space that has been created in my closet due to the reduction of our wardrobe over the past year, yesterday i was able to relocate all of my belongings to other places:

  • the pants, shorts, sweaters, and gym clothing fit nicely in my closet and dresser drawer. 
  • one box full of pants and sweaters has been packed for goodwill.
  • my “yardwork” clothing has been moved to the laundry room (near the back door).

the armoire has been removed from our bedroom and has freed up roughly 15 square feet of floor space.  i found a special joy in removing this armoire because it symbolizes how far we have come over the past year. 

one year ago, this armoire, our dresser, and closet was stuffed full of clothing (and rarely worn clothing at that).  the task of removing a large piece of storage furniture seemed impossible - there was just no open space to put the clothes that were in it.  but over the past year, because we have minimalized our closets and purchased less clothing, room has been created.  relocating the clothes in the armoire was not a difficult task. 

and removing the old clunky furniture from our bedroom was a joyful task!  the minimalism process continues…

woman mistakenly junks $1 million mattress

two donated paintings fetch $150,000 for goodwill

*disclaimer: these stories are not meant to scare you into keeping your unneeded belongings.  i just found it coincedental that these two stories were published within hours of each other.   i’ll file it under humor.

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