“Too many people spend money they haven’t earned, to buy things they don’t want, to impress people they don’t like.” —Will Rogers
The average American home size has doubled in the past 50 years. Still 10% of households rent offsite storage and 25% of homeowners with two-car garages can’t park cars in them. 76% of Americans live paycheck-to-paycheck. And the average US household credit card debt stands at $15,191.
It appears we have a spending problem. We buy far more than we need.
And yet, our filled closets, overflowing drawers, and crammed basements stand as proof that purchases are not improving our lives. Our discontent is evidenced in our excess. (tweet that)
In every imaginable category (from homes and cars to clothing and technology), we must find greater intentionality in our consumer pursuits.
To accomplish this, I propose we start asking ourselves some very specific questions before making any purchase.
3 Questions to Ask Before Any Purchase (by category)
Clothing/Apparel:
1. Am I replacing an item of clothing or buying something new? If the item is not a specific replacement, rethink your need for it.
2. Is this something I will wear regularly? If you can’t see yourself wearing the item on a regular basis, rethink the purchase.
3. Is the style one that will last? Don’t believe all the hype of the latest trends, they are manufactured by the fashion industry and change quickly.
Technology:
1. What problem does this solve? Technology should make our lives easier by solving problems. If a new technology is not solving an existing problem, it is only adding to them.
2. Are there any rumors of new advancements to this technology? Technology is changing rapidly. If your purchase is not time sensitive, it may be wise to double-check if a new release is right around the corner.
3. Is this technology I can afford? Keep in mind the full cost is often far greater than the initial investment.
Furniture/Decor:
1. Is my purchase based on a genuine need or a cultural pressure? Am I succumbing to a specific pressure brought on by cultural, peer, or family pressure? Or is the furniture/decor something I truly need?
2. Am I choosing quality over quantity? With furniture, choose quality over quantity. One comfortable place to sit is far better than three uncomfortable options. And one beautiful piece of art decor will provide more life than a dozen cheap ones.
3. Is this style one that will last?
Entertainment:
1. Will this entertainment choice result in rest and value? Entertainment moves our emotion, occupies our heart, and exercises our mind. Or at least, it should. Choose to invest your entertainment dollars in places that will.
2. Am I overusing entertainment to escape my life? There is nothing wrong with enjoying entertainment. It serves an important purpose. However, it can become a personal and financial burden if we use it as a means to routinely escape our own reality rather than face it.
3. Is there a cheaper alternative? A walk in the park or a hike up a mountain is often more entertaining and beneficial than buying another movie ticket.
Food:
1. Will this food add fuel to my life? Unhealthy foods may taste better in the moment, but in the long-run, they detract from our well-being and lifestyle.
2. Are my food decisions contributing to my financial stress? According to statistics, Americans spend 42% of their total food bill eating out. If you are unable to get ahead financially, this is one easy place to start cutting back.
3. Who am I supporting with this purchase? You need to eat. Support your local economy while you do.
Personal Insurance/Health:
1. If purchased personally, have I discussed my options with a health insurance professional? Find professional help with this decision. It is their job to understand all your options (and they are changing quickly).
2. Have I researched the benefits of my existing plan? Am I getting the absolute most out of my current payments? Search dental, vision, and preventive care.
3. Am I pursuing a health-benefiting lifestyle? The most effective way to keep your health care costs at a minimum is to pursue a healthy lifestyle. Accidents and heritage happen, but healthy habits always pay for themselves in the long run.
Transportation:
1. Do I need a new vehicle? If not, why do I want a new vehicle? And is that a good enough reason to spend the resources?
2. How much cash + trade-in have I saved? Always, always buy your vehicles with cash. You won’t regret it.
3. What are the additional expenses associated with this purchase? Calculate insurance, gasoline, anticipated maintenance, and unique circumstances (parking, tolls). Factor these into your decision by comparing several models. Sometimes a vehicle may cost more upfront, but save money in the long run.
Housing:
1. Am I buying/renting only what I need? Choose shelter based on your needs, not what the realtor says you can afford.
2. What will be the additional expenses included in this purchase? Whenever possible, research the utility costs, insurance, taxes, expected maintenance, and HOA fees of your new purchase—especially if you are transitioning from a rental.
3. Will this arrangement bring freedom or burden into my life? Your home should bring you security and stability—not stress. Wisely consider also the impact of potential economic downturns on your home value and ability to make future payments.
Pets:
1. Is this a pet I can afford? Consider all costs associated with your pet: feeding, licensing, housing, cleaning, grooming, pet-sitters, and medical expenses.
2. “Will this animal or pet keep me from pursuing other important goals like travel, hosting others in my home, or financial independence?”
3. Will the benefits an animal brings to my life outweigh the extra work and expenses? Am I able to articulate the exact reason why I am taking on this responsibility?
I am very open to this being a fluid list. Are there any spending categories you would like me to add? Or do you have any specific questions for the categories above you have found particularly helpful? Let us know in the comment section below.
Amy says
How about guitars and instruments? :) that’s our downfall.
Jim says
I wonder where this bestselling author lives…small bungalow? And does he live in a location that allows him to commute by foot or bicycle, thus negating the need for a car? I doubt it. He’s just trying to make money, not trying to help people. He’s a self-help author in the sense that he’s “helping himself” to your money.
Allison Jimenez says
I have thought the same thing. However, I believe it’s almost a safety mechanism to justify not finding the reason to all he is stating. I don’t know if it would be too much to ask for an interview with pics of his home. It’s like satisfying our curiosity while serving as a possible motivation. Accountability keeps us genuine.
Nyssa says
He has posted pictures of the interior of his home before. It might be a good idea to ask him directly before posting criticisms here.
Alex says
Actually, he has posted pictures of his home, which is very modest with minimal decor and furniture. Although, I do find it strange to require evidence that a stranger is living simply before you use the lessons of minimalism for yourself. It’s all about choice.
Allen Bowden says
Where did he ask for your money? Look him up on Facebook, and read his blog. He follows his own advice, and his advice comes from experience.
Keith says
When has he asked for your money, Jim (serious question)? I have followed this blog for a long time and get very regular value from it, but haven’t had any contact/requests/pressure to buy anything. Do you live a minimal lifestyle?
Pam Motown says
Much of what he says is not only true, but of help to those people he mentions in this post.
Sometimes though, it is fun to acquire something unusual, artistic or otherwise for different reasons.
I like how Joshua does actually walk the walk and talk the talk but that kind of strict minimalism is not for this artist.
May says
Are you kidding me?
He sells book but this website, his Facebook page and Podcast are FREE resources whether you buy his book or not.
This website is even advertisment-free & easy to navigate since there are no pop-ups. If someone doesn’t find value to anything written here, they can simply walk away.
Saying that he’s just ‘helping’ others for money is a very judgemental statement.
Jeff says
Perhaps you need to look in your own mirror. I read the blog posts to better myself and to reduce my living. If you don’t care for the advice, move along and have a nice day. I bought a book and found in beneficial to me. The website, along with my own commitment to living a more simple life based upon the teaching of St. Francis of Assisi, guide my lifestyle. I’m not sure why you even bothered to post.
Rand MacKay says
I don’t know the author, but I do know enough to know that he lives in a smaller home in a community with great public transportation. Not everyone is out to ‘get you’. He has talked about making a conscious decision to downsize, and he put it to the test.
Donna says
People who jump to being Negative and condemning and judgmental is what’s wrong with America today
Remember “Thumper”
” if you can’t say something NICE dont say ANYTHING at all”!
Lea says
If like to see some business points brought up. Like marketing. I can blow a lot on marketing. Any points to consider?
Kathryn says
I’ve got a large problem with the pet section. Many of the people I know including myself end up with stray cats. Mama kitty showed up in our shed with 4 kittens and we took them in and I tried to find decent homes for them but we ended up with 3 of them. I just couldn’t bring myself to drop them at the pound. We have other strays as well. Some things can’t be planned. I’m an official crazy cat lady.
Lisa says
My grandmother always used to say ‘nothing is cheap if you don’t need it’. Great motto to live by especially in today’s world of sales sales sales, bargain, 2 for 1 etc.
Iliana Brightwolf says
Brilliant. So simple, really, yet it takes courage to ask these questions. Thank you for this article.
Mara says
As a Professional Photo Organiser I’d include the category of photos.
Did you all see the granny that went viral? The one in a crowd where everyone else was focused on their camera not the “moment”….
The 3 questions
1. Would my grandchildren enjoy this photo
2. Does it support an important/funny/historic/memorable story
3. Would I be upset if the photo was lost forever? (leasing to the important topic of backing up…if you think it’s important enough to take the photo then it’s important enough to back up)
Donna says
What about small/large household appliances. I see a lot of new gadgets out there and I am drawn to them. Do we really need the slow cooker with the digital timer. Or maybe the fancy refrigerator that has the ice and cold water dispensers. There are so many things out there to cover your counters. I may not be able to find my one cup coffee maker one day. You know…….the fancy one that comes in so many colors it’s hard to choose one. And it just does everything you ever wanted in a coffeemaker. :D
Dolly Dickinson says
I recommend an excellent book called The 7 Experiment: Mutiny against Excess in which Jen Hatmaker explores seven areas of life that needed reexamination–food, clothing, possessions, spending, media, etc.
Raychel says
I thought about you the other day when I purchased myself a new purse. The purse that I had I didn’t like because of the style and color. I specifically replaced that with a new purse, with a purse that would bring some joy to my life. I donated the purse I replaced, and I hope that it will bring some joy to the person who finds it. Thank you for increasing the intentionality of my life.
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