“Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not.” —Epicurus
As someone who’s experienced the life-giving benefits of minimalism, I can’t help but desire to introduce others to this life-changing philosophy.
However, over the years, I’ve heard quite a few objections to the idea of living a minimalist lifestyle.
If you’re reading this article because you’re curious about minimalism but are still on the fence, I want to address some of the common objections people often have about embracing minimalism.
Objections might be the right word, but myths is probably even better—as most of the objections I hear about minimalism don’t turn out to be true.
My hope is to simply challenge some of the myths you might be holding onto.
1. “I Don’t Want to Give Up Everything”
This is perhaps the most common objection. But minimalism doesn’t ask you to give up everything—only the things that aren’t adding value to your life.
You get to decide what’s essential and meaningful to you. Even better, you get to decide which distractions are keeping you from fully-living… and those are the things you choose to remove.
2. “It’s Only for Single, Young People”
Minimalism has no age or relationship status limit. Whether you’re single, married, young, or old, the principles of minimalism can be applied to your life.
My wife and I found minimalism when our two children were young (5 and 2).
Minimalism has allowed us to enjoy more quality time, meaningful moments, and less stress.
3. “Minimalism Is a Fad”
It’s true that the term “minimalism” has gained popularity over the years, but the core principles are timeless. I hope, in part, because of Becoming Minimalist.
But the idea of living a focused, purposeful life is as old as time itself. Think about it, many of the world’s great philosophers and spiritual leaders emphasized the benefits of a simple, intentional life.
The lifestyle of choosing to intentionally own only what we need to own is as old as life itself.
4. “I Can’t Be a Minimalist Because I Have Kids”
As a parent, I understand this objection intimately. However, minimalism can have incredible benefits for families.
By decluttering our living spaces, we not only make room for more meaningful activities but also model essential life skills for our kids.
As I learned and have repeated from the very beginning, “Kids might make minimalism more difficult, but they also make it more important.”
5. “I Don’t Want to Live in a Bare, White Space”
Minimalism isn’t synonymous with a lack of decoration or color. Your home should reflect your personality and include items that bring you joy.
Minimalism merely helps you identify what actually contributes to your well-being.
6. “Minimalism Is Just Decluttering”
While decluttering is a component of minimalism, it isn’t the end goal. Often, the road to minimalism begins by removing unneeded physical possessions. But the principles quickly extend to other distractions we notice in our lives.
Minimalism isn’t just about what you’re removing but also about what you’re making room for—like purpose, passion, and meaningful connections.
7. “It’s Just for the Wealthy”
Minimalism isn’t just for the rich. In fact, just the opposite. It primarily benefits those with limited financial resources.
After all, you don’t need a lot of money to own only the things you need to own.
The mindset can be particularly useful for those who feel financially strained because it helps you understand what truly deserves your limited financial investment.
8. “I Won’t Be Productive Without My Stuff”
The belief that more stuff equals more productivity is a common fallacy.
In fact, excess often leads to distraction. A minimalist workspace can help you focus on tasks that truly matter, improving your overall productivity.
A related myth is “I need a lot of stuff to be a creative artist.” But again, this is not true. In fact, Orson Welles said it best, “The absence of limitations is the enemy of art.”
9. “I’ll Have No Safety Net”
Simplicity does not mean recklessness. Minimalist living actually provides greater opportunity for safety.
Creating an emergency fund and holding onto genuinely useful items does not conflict with minimalist principles. In fact, both of those things are easier when living a minimalist life. Minimalist living actually provides greater opportunity for safety.
Even more, minimalism encourages you to build a meaningful safety net, one not built on material possessions alone but also on strong relationships and skills.
10. “I Won’t Be Happy Without My Possessions”
It’s a myth we’ve all fallen for: equating material possessions with happiness. But if we take a moment to reflect, we’ll often find that our most treasured memories rarely involve material goods. Instead, they’re built on experiences and relationships, things that minimalism makes room for.
It’s natural, I suppose, to have objections and questions about minimalism. After all, it’s a step away from what society often tells us is the “right way” to live.
But I, and countless others, can attest that once you make room for what truly matters, your life will never be the same.
Minimalism is about creating space for more meaning, joy, and fulfillment. If any of these objections have been holding you back, I urge you to take a small step today—declutter a drawer, spend an hour without your phone, or simply take a moment to consider what’s truly essential in your life.
It’s a journey worth embarking on. And I promise you, on the other side of your objections, lies a life filled with purpose and joy.
My mother was a hoarder and it got her stuff controlled her life. I made a vow that I didn’t want to follow in her footsteps. I regularly evaluate my possesions(I have a bit more than I’d ideally like) to assertain whether they truly provide value to my life and discard/donate those that do not. You really do have to be rather ruthless or things can get out of control. I’ve found that having a nice cushion of savings/investments beats having a lot of stuff.
Spot on!
We recently went on a cruise to Alaska. At one of the ports, I wanted to purchase a shirt for our new grandchild. However, the lines were so long and the stores so crowded I changed my mind. I didn’t want to waste time inside when the beautiful scenery was there!
Finally I did a major clean out of my craft supplies. All the clutter was weighing me down. I couldn’t make a decision while creating because there was too much stuff clouding the issue. Now I have so much less but I’m much more creative. Who knew that less really was more. I donated the excess to a local place that holds craft gatherings for underprivileged children.
I’ve found this article to be one of the best I’ve read. However maybe it’s just that the motivation changing my cluttering habits has come to the point in my life that I’m ready to come through the door into change , and not just have my foot over the threshold. Number 10 myth definitely spoke to me the most. I’ve wanted more peace and clarity and simple thinking. As I toss things, I attain more of those qualities. I see my home becoming less cluttered, I feel my mind becomes so as well. I realize I want more room to stretch out, to allow my animals more room, and to have room to put a sofa and a chair. Maybe room for a television too. I live in a 600 square ft apartment.
I think I have always been a minimalist, for as far back as I can remember of when I first lived out on my own , way back in my 20’s I always wanted less things in my home but didn’t start out that way but ever since (and I am now age 58) I’ve been decluterring since those early days of my 20’s , in the past 10 years alone I have moved around a lot and with each move got rid of so much and now that I live in an apartment and once again will be moving in about 2 months I am downsizing again , decluttering, I love how my apartment currently looks with less and plan to have it the same in new apartment in 2 months . AHHHH room to breathe, so much more relaxed with less items or house decorations etc. Maybe I have always been a minimalist and love it and will continue to live this way !!
That is a great summary of the myths people have about minimalism. “I’ll have no safety net” is one I deal with a lot when helping people. I love how you state that safety is actually easier when you live based on minimalist principles. It’s true. And if a safety net is important to you, you can make that more functional and sustainable when you don’t have more and more and more.
Thanks again for all you do to keep us on track of what is valuable in our life. I enjoy your emails, articles, & books immensely. Best regards to you & your family. Your consciousness has changed my path a hundred fold.
I’ve been reading your articles and guests articles on minimalism for quite a while. I’ve cleaned out a drawer or two and a couple of cabinets. It does make me feel better to see less clutter, but I never felt like proceeding any further with purging this “stuff”. My husband is on hospice care, and I’ve been asked several times if I plan on staying in our home. It’s a large two-story home sitting on 31/2 acres of land. My first thought has always been that the house and property are too large for me to maintain, and I planned on moving. But lately, I’ve started to realize that what’s making me want to move is all the “stuff” we have accumulated. The house itself is not the problem, it’s the contents. If I can remove all the unwanted and unnecessary stuff, I feel this place would be manageable. So, in my case I just needed to have a reason to start minimalizing. Thank you for helping me to see my own “why” to minimalizing. Now that I have a good reason, I’m ready to get started.
Joshua, the picture you chose is so cute! Minimalism is one of the best things that has ever happened to me—- and I found it through Becoming Minimalist, so thank you for that! My house is by no means sparse or cold—- but because I continually weed out the clutter, it’s a lot more functional. And the peace of mind without always wanting more is priceless. Minimalism looks different for everyone and no one dictates what you can or cannot have. Once you experience the joy/peace of letting go of the unnecessary or unwanted, minimalism is a welcome way of life and you make it your own! :)
Judy, I love your comment! It’s PERFECT — particularly your last two sentences!